Online dating is More fantasy than reality

Written by IT News on 10:17 AM

Online dating industry is increasingly grow on the Internet, I do personally believe that many people put too many "fantasy" in their online connections, and fail to use good common sense because of it.

The biggest danger people face meeting in person someone they met online is unfulfilled, unrealistic expectations. We all burp, fart and sweat. While not see how someone chews their food and pronounces their words that can not be JST, that this is love, not fantasy.

That meet your intentions do not always work, since select partners that are not compatible and they develop emotional connections, before meeting in person, one Australian university researcher has found.

Women are more inclined to choose the wrong partner because they are attracted to humorous and witty comments, emails, according to psychologist Matthew Bambling from Queensland University of Technology.

"Just because they can write smart and witty comments, e-mail, does not mean they will be Mr. Right, that's for sure," said Bambling Reuters. He says people will highlight their good points, while covering up to anything negative.

"Few boys for example, will say" so, I am a middle aged alcoholic who was married five times, pick me. "They happen to present himself as a good catch," said Bambling. Bambling said it is easy for people to put too much emotional connection on the Internet before they meet in person.

"They often become emotionally involved quickly and invest in another person before the meeting. After the meeting they move too quickly because one emotional connection actually began when they started the online interaction before the meeting, in which time they build a fantasy view of another person, "Casa said.

Bambling recommends that people can avoid the problems of online dating from the meeting after the first few messages. This helps avoid investing more than emotional or creating a fantasy for another person.

It offers a meeting over coffee instead of dinner in case something does not work because it is less awkward and less pressure on throughout the dinner meeting. "The primary, you need to remember is to make real-life contact as soon as possible if they are interested in someone, because it is here that we will find out whether a link is the possibility, said Bambling.